I'm going to Toronto...
I talked to my best friend last night and she's getting... MARRIED! This SATURDAY! I can't believe it. It was a very spontaneous thing. Anyway, I'm headed to Toronto on Saturday. My best friend (BTW named Yael) is Canadian, which works out very well for her because she's marrying a woman and gay marriage is legal there. I have not met this other woman, so I am a little anxious about the whole thing. Doesn't mean I don't trust her. It's just very weird. They've been together for well over a year, so it's not like she's doing something super-foolish. I guess I just never do things that spontaneously, so it just freaks me out.
The two of them will also be spending a few days with us around Christmas. I don't remember if I told my parents that Yael is gay. And I also am not sure of how they'll react! They're not overtly homophobic (after all they're Kerry-voting anti-war Democrats), but they have some pretty (lets just say) "homophobic leanings".
Since we'll be having my parents and Bill's parents over for Christmas brunch, I think I'll need to make sure they're clear on the situation beforehand. I think they can figure out how to behave politely.
The two of them will also be spending a few days with us around Christmas. I don't remember if I told my parents that Yael is gay. And I also am not sure of how they'll react! They're not overtly homophobic (after all they're Kerry-voting anti-war Democrats), but they have some pretty (lets just say) "homophobic leanings".
Since we'll be having my parents and Bill's parents over for Christmas brunch, I think I'll need to make sure they're clear on the situation beforehand. I think they can figure out how to behave politely.
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I would just wait until you're introducing them:
"Mom, Dad, this is Yael. And this is her wife."
Don't forget to set up a videocamera to capture their reaction. I'm sure it will be very interesting. ;-)
Seriously now. I just think it's a shame that we STILL have to make such a big deal out of these things and make "preparations" in advance...
-- Mauro
well i'm SO glad you came!!
sorry that you didn't get to see toronto... much...
and i'm not worried about your parents or B's parents - maybe i'm naive but i think it will be fine!
birgitte is looking forward to our visit.
hugs!
-yael
Hmm. Well, I don't worry about Bill's parents, only my own. {sigh}
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